Is Your Therapist a Miserable Person?
In the world of therapy, therapists, just like us, carry beautiful scars, reflecting genuine humanity in their guidance.
Picture this: a dimly lit room, two armchairs, and a gentle voice coaxing you to share the depths of your heart. You unspool your worries, lay your fears bare, and hand them over to this learned professional. And while you’re grappling with your own internal monsters, have you ever stopped to wonder about the demons your therapist might be dancing with?
Let’s get one thing straight. Therapists are human. Just because they’ve got a fancy degree and an uncanny knack for nodding at the right time doesn’t make them immune to the ups and downs of the human experience. Misery, like happiness, doesn’t discriminate based on job titles.
Remember Hemingway’s words, “Write drunk; edit sober”? Just like writers can’t always separate from their lived experiences, therapists can’t cleanly disentangle from theirs. Their very craft relies on tapping into a vast reservoir of empathy, understanding, and personal insight. They’ve got to have swum in those turbulent waters themselves to know how to guide others ashore.
Let’s take a detour for a moment. Dive bars in the farthest reaches of cities, places filled with old…
