To Hip or Not To Hip

Why Do Men Stand with Their Hands on Hips at the Beach?

Hands-on-Hips: The Beach’s Unofficial Man Uniform: From powerful stances to moments of reflection, here’s a captivating look into the unspoken dance of man set against nature’s canvas.

Michael Boyd
4 min readSep 8, 2023

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There’s an art to people watching, and the beach — that vast stretch of golden sands and lapping waves — is one of the grand stages of human theater. The beach is where stories happen, lives are laid bare (often quite literally), and the subtle gestures of humanity reveal themselves to the observant eye. One such gesture, which I’ve come across repeatedly, is the quintessential stance of men with hands firmly placed on their hips, squinting against the bright horizon.

So why do they do it?

A Posture of Anticipation

Firstly, standing with hands on hips is often a posture of readiness. Think of the boxer outside the ring, the athlete waiting for the whistle, or the rock star moments before the lights appear on stage. The beach, with its fierce sun and unpredictable waves, is nature’s amphitheater. Standing with hands on hips is like the man saying to the ocean, “I’m here, and I’m ready…

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Michael Boyd

A curious explorer of human behavior and life's subtle lessons, sharing insights on resilience, purpose, and the universe's whispers.